crying is overrated

i am just sick and tired of crying on my way to work or anywhere he isnt. its not fair to me but if i cry infront of him he just ignores me and it doesnt phase him. Nothing phases him when it come to my feelings. i feel like my feelings arent important or in his word "outrageous" "overdramatic" "ridicioulous". I know no ones marriage is perfect but at least other people's husbands actually care when there wives are upset. playing poker 3 days in a row and one day/ night for 12 hours is extreme! i am just dont "putting up" with it